I am desperate for advice. Please help.
Last night, I found my dd having a, what can only be described as a pornographic chat, on an Internet chat room.
The language being used and what she and 'the stranger' were asking to have done to each other and describing what they were doing, was absolutely sickening, completely unprintable on here. She was posing as a 20 year old.
I probably couldn't have handled the situation worse as she started lying and screaming abuse at me and I lost my temper. I felt like I could have actually throttled her. My husband took her to my mums as she was starting to push me around and then tried to run out of the house. She is still there.
My mum spoke to her, when she was calm, and she said it was her (she refused to admit it) and she had gone on this website with a friend at a sleepover a couple of days ago. She has a good relationship with my mum, the kind I am desperate to have with get. This breaks my heart, as I have a very complex one with her but that's a whole other thread.
I don't recognise my daughter. She constantly lies, has history of stealing from me, is disrespectful and sneaky. I feel like I'm losing her and, as awful as this sounds and I'm so so ashamed, I feel like I don't want her around. She is making everyones lives miserable. I feel like my family is falling apart. Every day is a battle.
What I read last night was so disturbing...is this what she thinks sex is..? She is 13 ffs!!!
I am desperate for advice about what to do next and how I can handle this a damn sight better than I have so far. Most importantly, I am concerned about her safety. This is not the first time she has made herself vulnerable. Do I come down hard, removing phone, laptop etc..? I want to know where she has seen/heard this and how risky her behaviour is. I would not be surprised if the next step would have been an arrangement to meet. That is where the conversation was heading.
Please help.
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Last night my 13 yr old dd was on an Internet chat room
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mrscraig · 26/08/2016 07:25
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