Hi I'm new to this so please bare with me! :).
I'm 26 years old and a guy, I'm raising my two younger brothers and my little sister. My parents unfortunately died when I was 22 - I've been looking after them since then.
My brothers Alex who is 21 and Luke who's 19 came to me a couple of weeks ago and said they'd noticed changes in her behaviour. My sister Aimee is 13 so going through the teenage hormonal stage - I thought that was the problem.
I've had to work a lot more recently so Al and Luke have been watching her whenever I've had to do night shifts. Things seemed to get better after a little bit but yesterday things fell apart.
I came home at about 2:00 in the morning and could hear muffled crying coming from my sister's room. I went in, sat with her and gave her a hug whilst asking her to tell me what was wrong. It took me almost an hour to coax it out of her. It seems that a few girls in her class who she thought were her friends are being really bitchy and spiteful to her online. They are calling her fat, ugly, a slag etc. I was beyond furious; I know the damage that words can do especially to vulnerable teenage girls. I tried to comfort her, told her to block them from her social media.
The other thing which I am annoyed at is that they are making fun of her because she doesn't have a mum or dad and they said, "I'm surprised your brother has lasted this long. You're a burden on him." So now she thinks she's a burden... Which I have told her is not true. She isn't, she's the easiest person to look after.
Don't get me wrong, I haven't been able to live a normal life, but I would never hold it against her or my younger brothers. I have an older brother who's 30 and lives in Ireland (we live in Essex) so he can't just help and come over. I also have a sister who's 23 but is at university and can't really help me.
I need help to try and boost up her self esteem, she's missing our parents and for the first time I don't know what to do.
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Jimjam1990 · 29/07/2016 10:22
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