I'm a single mum of 14-year-old twins and am struggling - to the point of depression - with one of them. From the moment he gets up in the morning to the moment he goes to bed I tread carefully for fear of triggering an outburst of abuse. I'm struggling to assert my authority and, in the evenings, end up opting out of doing anything by drinking wine and watching telly in my bedroom. He dominates the telly and won't do anything to help. When his brother tries to intervene he, too, is subjected to abuse, and they often end up fighting. I know that somehow I need to get a grip on the situation but part of me thinks it's too late, and that I just need to get through to the point when he leaves home. TBH, I don't know where to start and would particularly like to hear from people who've been in a similar situation, about how they resolved it.
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