Im talking about things like arguments, nasty comments, rowing between children and their girl/boyfriends and even between girlfriend and girlfriend. Just leave them to it or get involved?
My youngest sons girlfriend was lovely at first but during the last year has turned into a right nasty so and so. Started around August/July time she started saying things about my elder sons girlfriend which we stupidly believed and banned from our house. Things we okay for a bit then Christmas time she started being nasty towards my son and still continutes to be. She is very controlling and doesn't let him have any sort of life outside of her. If he decides to come home without her an hour late she'll have turned up ready to stay the night, she does not give him any space. There's been lots of arguments recently that I just ignored and she has said some horrible things to my son. About march time we decided to start letting my elder sons girlfriend start coming over again and things being said from younger girl started up again. Took us until 2 weeks ago to realise everything that was said was absolute bullshit from the younger girl, probably out of jelousy but we never spoke to either girls about it. After realising nothing said about the elder girl was true we decided to let her start sleeping over again and things got really bad. Younger girl started throwing tantrums whenever elder was over, she would come to me and make out like elder girl had taken things from her or had made mean comments. Elder girl seems to just take it all in her stride and ignore it but my younger son and his girlfriend are just getting out of hand. Arguments every day and for a few days my son refused to eat dinner with us when elder girl was around, he changed his mind after an argument with his girlfriend but it won't be long until he's having to pick between her and us.
I don't want to get in the middle of it but surely I can't just sit back and let it all happen?
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Onfleek · 12/06/2016 21:39
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