Hi First time on here and really need advice on what to do. I recently found out that my 16 year old daughter was in a relationship with a 21 year old. I found messages between them on my tablet which she had been using. The messages were very sexual explicit and referred to degrading sex acts. He called her his dirty slutty sex slave and she had to call him master. He also spoke of him hurting her, slapping her around, shoving a bottle up her vagina and bottom, pulling her hair and choking her. He talked of her having 3 cocks up her.... he also said he wanted to f**k her in public in front of her friends. He also wanted sex without a condom.
I confronted her about the messages and she admitted to me that she has had sex with him including anal sex.She denied having unprotected sex, having sex outside and that he hadn't tried to choke her and put bottles inside her as she wouldn't let him.
I have since found out that she has had unprotected sex and has had sex outside.
I feel I don't know my daughter I also feel that she has been manipulated by someone who is 5 years older than her.
I have contacted the police but although they agree that it is worrying it is not illegal....
I am going to talk to my doctor about her and show her the messages as I want her to be checked out for disease, pregnancy and and signs of violence.
I don't know what else I can do, I have remained almost calm with her and tried talking but I find it very hard to trust what she is telling me.
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Desperateat50 · 10/05/2016 01:55
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