I've never posted on this board before so this is the first time. I've never even been on Mumsnet before .........I'm just a bit despearate for a bit of help I have a son who has just turned 15, in October he spent 8 weeks in an adolescent CAMHS unit as he attempted to hang himself several times. He came out and tried again but really didn't want to go back into hospital so he stayed at home and they upped his medication. I suppose I just need to some support from other parents as I have no idea how to handle him. He is receiving help from CAMHS who are great but with the best will in the world you can not make a boy engage with CBT if he doesn't want to. He's so angry all the time. It is like he has this big aura of rage encircling his whole being and it is impossible to talk to him. He now says he want to stop taking his medication (30mg of fluoxetine) as it is increasing his suicidal thoughts which he is plagued with. We are going to see the psychiastrist on Tuesday which is good but he never tells them what he tells me or he feels ok when he sees them and he only reaches out to me when he feels really bad. Furthermore, he started smoking 'weed' as he calls it which is a real worry as he has been warned that it could tip him into a space of even greater mental illness.
Oh I don't know , it is so hard and this weekend I ended up ill in bed with the most terrible cough and cold which I am sure has been brought on by the stress of all this. I just don't know how to help him. He was my lovely boy and now is this person who I hardly recognise, I feel I've lost him to this terrible thing, depression which has so much stigma attached to it. It is life threatening yet, to say my son has tried to hang himself numerous times feels shameful like I have been a bad mother and that he is somehow bad also. Sorry to rant just feel physically really rotten and emotionally very low right now.
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NancyPawsey · 01/05/2016 16:35
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