Hi all, new to Mumsnet and looking for a bit of advice/support etc....
We have a nearly 14 year old son who is top set for all subjects at school, however we have the 'computer' scenario at home where he is near on addicted to the thing and there is little or no family communication on his part, of which we have had several heated family discussions about.
We recently had a parents evening and he got an absolutely glowing report an he is on target for 7-9s (a's/A*'s) in all of his exams in 2 years time. At the parents evening we were pulled to one side by the maths teacher who spoke to us inviting our son to an after school maths class for advanced maths with the aim of gearing advanced students for A'level maths (bear in mind our son is in year 9, so 2-3 years before A'levels). At the time our son seemed up for it. Obviously we felt very proud.
Yesterday, which was the first day for the after school maths, our son decided not to attend and not to tell anyone about it. and made his way home as normal, went to his room and 'logged on' to the virtual world.
when we arrived home we found out that he had not gone to the after school class and we were obviously gutted, but more so embarrassed and upset, feeling that he had let us down, but more importantly himself down. In the ensuing discussions, he said that 'maths was boring' and he didn't want to do it!. Our concern is that he was mare focused on getting home for some 'computer/gaming time'.
We have tried to have a civilised discussion about it but it is returned with a blank look and a shrug (normal teenage response). eventually we resulted in removing computer access for an agreed period.
any comment advice on the subject would be appreciated as we are feeling a bit emotional/disappointed/lost.... about the whole thing
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BrettB · 03/03/2016 10:43
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