My 16 yr old ds is sitting his highers this year (Scottish system, he's in 5th year). Three of his subjects involve assignments that he can prepare in advance at home and has to do some research, interviews etc. I'm really wanting to help make sure he's on the right track and have read the guidelines etc but he will barely let me discuss them and won't even tell me what topics he's decided to write about.
I find this so frustrating as I feel I would be able to proof read or at least have some discussion about the topics. One is medical ethics based and I have a lot of involvement in this at work but he will not listen to any advice.
It's got to the point where I'm almosr obsessed with talking about it because he won't and he's telling me to 'get out of his room' and that he's not listening. I know I should give up but find it so hard as I feel he would get a better grade if he was willing to accept a bit of help.
Sorry for ranting on but I'm finding all this pre exam stuff quite stressful. He failed two of his prelims and I'm going on at him to study more but he's so laid back he thinks he'll be fine if he does it closer to the time. Aaargh!!!
How do I accept he doesn't want my help and leave him to it ( especially when I'm a bit of a control freak!)
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Do I give up trying to help with schoolwork, exam assignments etc, re 16 yr old
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PJ67 · 29/02/2016 23:05
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