My son seems to have a bit of a secret life going on on social media and I'm not sure what to do about it...can anyone help?!
He plays various Minecraft based games online which grew from being with friends and a few friends of friends but now if I'm honest I'm not entirely sure who he plays with. We've been over Internet safety stuff countless times and I thought he got it.
When he first got his phone in year six, I used to check on it occasionally but it was all very innocent and I gradually started thinking he didn't need checking on and I should respect his privacy more.
However (!!), I realised he wasn't leaving his phone downstairs to charge for the last few days, so went up to check earlier and found he was on his phone in bed. So I took it and snooped.
Over the last few weeks, he's got closer to some different friends at school and now he seems to have some friends who are a mix of school friends and people who live somewhere else in the country. He had never mentioned these people to me but was playing truth with one of the girls tonight and she was talking about dicks and vag and how someone had a picture of her. He also seems to be following a few accounts with very explicit pics.
What shall I do? He's 13!! My instinct is to take all devises off him....but would that create more secretive behaviour? I feel really sad!
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BlackCatSleeps · 02/02/2016 23:41
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