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DD is in a huge mess

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Higuys22 · 25/01/2016 23:06

She got asked out boy a boy she hasn't even met in person, and now she wants to break up but is worried about her reputation at school and that he said he loved her. someone help us x

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Higuys22 · 25/01/2016 23:06

Sorry by a boy not boy a boy, you can see how stressful this is

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ExitPursuedByABear · 25/01/2016 23:09

So she hasn't met him.

But he loves her.

How does that work?

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Gunting · 25/01/2016 23:09

Presumably the boy who has asked her out isn't at the same school if they've never met... How will it impact her reputation?

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NeedAScarfForMyGiraffe · 25/01/2016 23:09

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RJnomore1 · 25/01/2016 23:10

How old is she

Where did she meet him

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BackforGood · 25/01/2016 23:10

Eh? Confused

How does it happen you get asked out by someone you've not even met?
Why would you accept such an invitation?

If she did, and then changed her mind, why would that affect her reputation ?

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ExitPursuedByABear · 25/01/2016 23:11

Oh no it's you again.

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QuietWhenReading · 25/01/2016 23:12

So she's formed a connection to a boy online and he declared his love for her and asked her out?

What did she say?

If she said yes and she's changed her mind then she should gently explain to the bit that she's thought better of it.

If she said no there's no problem.

I'm cindised as to why her reputation might be at stake though. How does anyone else even know about it? Has they been flirting in public in FB or Instagram?

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Donge13 · 25/01/2016 23:12

Meh

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QuietWhenReading · 25/01/2016 23:13

Exit is there something we should know?

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Finola1step · 25/01/2016 23:16

Just tell him. Then block and delete. Easy peasy.

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NeedAScarfForMyGiraffe · 25/01/2016 23:21

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imwithspud · 25/01/2016 23:22
Hmm
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NeedAScarfForMyGiraffe · 25/01/2016 23:22

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QuietWhenReading · 25/01/2016 23:25

Ah.

I see how that might not endear you to your peers. In that case something along these lines should suffice

"It's not working for me, I think we should split up"

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Higuys22 · 25/01/2016 23:31

Okay thanks sorry if the constant threads on boys r annoying, wow what a teenage life she lives!

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QuietWhenReading · 25/01/2016 23:32

Why is this so stressful for you OP? It's just standard teenage nonsense.

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ExitPursuedByABear · 25/01/2016 23:32

Imagine.

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FeedMyFaceWithJaffaCakes · 25/01/2016 23:34

I think this is actually all about the OP.Hmm

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Lemonski · 25/01/2016 23:34

Surely its easier to "dump" a boy you've never met than one in the flesh!!!

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AnyFucker · 25/01/2016 23:36

why do you keep getting involved in your teenage daughter's pretend boyfriend's ?

how old are you really ?

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ilovesooty · 25/01/2016 23:38

you can see how stressful this is
Not really.

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IAmPissedOffWithAHeadmaster · 25/01/2016 23:40

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Jezebel555 · 25/01/2016 23:41

Errrrm not even a real problem? Confused

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herethereandeverywhere · 25/01/2016 23:42

"a huge mess" Hmm

Go and get some actual life experience dear....

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