I'm a lone parent, no family support. DS is 13, I'm concerned as he spends all his free time on the computer or on his phone. I'm constantly playing 'good cop, bad cop' in my head....... Trying to get the balance right and not being too strict but also don't want to be a pushover. He does sport and activities 3 nights a week till quite late (9.30). He is getting on ok at school I have no issues, although homework is a battle he DOES do it, albeit hurried. I just feel he wants as little interaction with me, or the outside world, as possible. I, maybe foolishly, imagine this life whereby we sit down and discuss the day, talk through problems etc...... Instead I am grunted at and snapped at. He does see his dad sporadically but he is absolutely no support to me or DS. I obviously am female, have 1 sister, never had experience of teenage boys ...... Is this normal and should i be worried? He is a good lad I'm immensely proud of him. I'm worried I'm not being a good parent as I currently allow him on the computer till 8.30pm but then I battle with myself that's too long? He has no interest in reading at night I've tried but failed to get him to read. Weekends he will happily spend all day on the computer I try and get him to go out with friends but he's not interested. Should I just let it go? As I say I'm constantly at battle with myself over what is right/normal/acceptable? Sorry to ramble on but I'm struggling as have no support and I'm finding this stage quite difficult.
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