DD been at uni (3 hours drive away) for 4 weeks now.
Boyfriend finished with her 5 days before she left stating it wouldn't work with them being at different unis. She has taken this really badly, as she cant understand how he can go from loving her to being happy being single (he posts loads of photos/statuses on facebook showing this). The relationship was 6 months long and her first 'proper' one.
She struggles to make friends and isn't into the clubbing/drinking scene.
She is finding the course harder than she thought it would be.
She messages me / phones me several times a day, often crying.
She cant get over the ex boyfriend. She is still messaging him daily, firstly trying to hold onto the past but he has since said there is no chance of them getting back together. But still she messages him, despite me telling her not to.
Obviously moving to uni and all that entails is tough for anyone but she is really struggling.
Ive suggested she comes home for a visit but she doesn't seem to want to (partly because she would have to share a room with her 14 yr old sister)
I cant get to her at the moment due to work, other children and the costs involved.
I finally persuaded her to see the gp who has diagnosed depression and has been prescribed anti-depressants which will obviously take a while to kick in.
It tears me apart with her being so far away.
Any advice?
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18 yr old away at uni and been diagnosed with depression
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nerfqueen · 27/10/2015 19:37
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