Dd16 is like a lodger in our house. She spends as little time as possible here, usually going out straight after college and coming in later, having some food and then going to her room. She thinks this is perfectly OK and its me who has the problem. If I dare to bring the subject up it ends up in a row where I get accused of not trusting her and treating her like a baby.
She thinks I am prying all the time when I ask about friends and what's going on so I try not to but I want to know what's going on in her life.
She has said she hates living here and is moving out when she is 18. This all stems from her previously being given boundaries and the resulting rows. That is so hurtful to hear but quite frankly I am looking forward to it! I hate to admit it but she intimidates me a bit so although I am not a total pushover, I do tend to tiptoe around her to make things more comfortable at home. Then go and have a secret cry when she upsets me again.
I know there are people around who are dealing with a lot more than this, and I apologise if you think I am stressing about nothing but what do I do? Should I just totally back off and leave her be?
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sillygiraffe · 07/10/2015 10:00
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