Had a worried call from mum of DD's friend saying my DD (13) said she is depressed and thinking of suicide.
I managed to read her texts to her friends and it does seem to be attention seeking as she asks one friend to tell the others and then chases her to make sure they all know. Then she gets a stream of texts from her concerned friends saying how wonderful she is and they love her etc.
MY DD says to her friend she can't tell me as we are always arguing (not true, in fact I've had a cold this week and she's been really loving). She says she told her dad she was depressed (true) and that he will talk to his sister who has experience of depression (he didn't say that).
My guess is as one of the quietest of her group of friends she got worried when a new girl came into the group. She also hates her appearance and was down about having the school photo this week. And having just started year 9 she is worrying about all the GCSE talk.
So, do I tell her after she told her dad she was depressed I read her texts and ask about the suicidal thoughts?
Think I will let school know about the GCSE worries but do I mention what she texted her friends?
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BooToYouToo · 04/10/2015 17:02
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