I've explained how poor we'll be if she doesn't do either. I've helped apply for jobs and apprenticeships but they don't want her as she failed maths. She needs to go to college and get that qualification but she just keeps saying no.
I just don't know what to do. Her father (who lives apart) has been helping to persuade her, and just when we think we've got through she just turns round & says no again. She's not even stupid, she's just obstinate.
There's been other problems with her this year, all the usual teenage crap, but this is really frustrating me. I can't afford for her to live here but do nothing. It's not like she ever helps round the house or watches the other 2 DC for me while I work.
So selfish!
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TuTru · 05/09/2015 09:27
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