First a confession - I only know about this because DD left her FB chat page open on my PC so I read the conversation between them. I am not proud of myself but I cannot now unread it and I could do with some advice please.
They are not going out but they have been part of the same large group of friends at secondary school. He is putting pressure on DD to have "no strings" sex and is encouraging her to sneak out or to let him in if he sneaks in.
DD has not had a boyfriend - she is a little bit shy as well as very sporty and didn't ever feel like she fitted in at school. She has a pretty active life with her sports and is very much looking forward to sixth form college and making new friends.
She hasn't told me about the conversation. In the FB chat, she seems to be wavering between saying yes and coming up with excuses. He is pretty insistent and keeps contacting her.
I should trust her to make the right decision but is there anything else I could do? I just hate the thought of her feeling pressurised into sex with some boy who she doesn't even love.
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17 yo DD whose 'friend' is pressuring her to have sex with him
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OrlandoTheMarmaladeCat · 27/07/2015 13:09
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