I'm hoping for some sage advice on how to support my dd(14). We have had a horrendous couple of years and it feels like nothing I do is helping.
DD has been through phases of trashing her bedroom(totally!!), isolating herself from friends and generally withdrawing, she is angry and sad and feels like the world has been ruined by humanity and hates the idea of having to conform to society and follow like sheep. We arranged counselling that she attended for about 5 months but then abruptly stopped and refused to go back. She has been referred to camhs who have been utterly useless. They have referred her for ASD testing but there is little hope of this happening for another 18 months. She is regularly refusing to attend school - she is very academic and quiet in school and I don't think they are really showing much concern or offering any support.
family life is a nightmare, I also have DS(4) who struggles to cope with the unpredictability of his sister and I am so worried about how this is affecting him and how I am failing my DD. DH (step dad to DD) is really struggling to cope . There seems to be no one to turn to to find a way through this misery. I am starting to feel like DD would be better off with someone else who could understand and help her before her childhood is over. I love DD with all my heart but feel like I'm letting her down.
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bowbear · 29/06/2015 19:50
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