Hi all,
Over the past week my DD has been going to Uni open days with her friends on the train. She has asked her father if he will take her to an open day on Friday which is around a 2 hr drive because the train tickets are too expensive and she can't afford it out of her own money.
However, DH has told her he will take her but doesn't really want too and said if he is busy with work (he is self employed) then he won't be able to take her. DD's boyfriend is also going to the same open day and has offered her lifts, but I don't really want them to go together as I don't want DD to go somewhere just so she can be with him.
Am I being unreasonable about DD's uni choices? I really don't want her to move out, but she seems adamant that she wants to for the student expierence. Both me and DH didn't go to Uni so this is a fairly new expierence for us trying to get our heads around the prices and application process etc.
DD works on weekends and I work in the week so DD is having to miss college to go. Am I being selfish for not booking a day off work to go with her and making her go with her friends? I want DD to be educated, I just really don't want her to leave home.
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mumof2kidz · 21/06/2015 09:11
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