Right DD has been friends with a girl for around 4 years. At first it was more acquaintance however they became closer (ssiiiggghhhhhhh). I try not to be judgemental but this girl is a nightmare whichever way its dressed up. She does the following -
- Snogs DD's boyfriends (but she does it for her to show they aren't trustworthy)
- Goes ballistic if DD makes friends with ANYONE else. To the point she messages whoever the new friend is telling them to not speak to DD if they ignore her request she poisons them by saying DD has said XYZ about them.
- She loves to make people feel uncomfortable-asks me about my sex life!!! Bends over in front of men and says "Were you looking at me".
- messages me when DD has had a bitch about me to let me know what's she's said (despite me telling her I really don't care then ignoring further comments).
- She lies about various serious illness's
- She lies about every aspect of her life. Pretends she is from a very "rough" family or is in foster care.
- If DD doesn't pick up her phone she calls me, DDs dad, all DD's friends to track her down. We don't pick up so she messages.
- She has regular fights so most girls are quite intimidated by her so give her the air time she constantly demands
- She has to ruin anyone else's occasion to make it all about her. Generally by fabricating a story of trauma so everyone has to spend their special day providing her with support.
Her parents are lovely they have two other girls, one boy. They are at their wits end and at a bit of a loss as to why she behaves like this and get very emotional about it. They have tried private therapy etc but she puts on a charming front. She can be nice/charming at time but I just find her company un nerving now so don't allow her round. DD is so used to it she is quite unphased now and seems to have the role of her carer. Short of moving abroad how can we get her to back off?!