Went to a school meeting tonight & it brought it home to me just how bad a greasy oik my beloved dd (17.5) is. Whilst I applaud her not feeling pressured over her appearance, she's so far in the other direction it's embarrassing. I practically have to cattle-prod her into the shower amidst much verbal protest. At very best, she showers once a week, if we're lucky & she naturally has very oily hair. She can manage to put a flannel around her face in the morning so that's ok but she only showers under duress after enormous procrastination. She has a boyfriend who doesn't seem to mind, so I can't dangle that carrot in front of her. I just don't know what to do. We've tried all the usual nice bathroom products etc. Her hair is disgusting. This is nothing new, she's always been this way but I think it's about time she cleaned up a bit for the sake of her own presentation, she'll be out in the real world soon enough. She just doesn't give a sh1t. What can I do?