I know a certain amount of slobbing round being grumpy is pretty run of the mill but DD has changed beyond all recognition.
She used to be soooo chatty and very sociable . In fact it was difficult this time a few months ago as she was out 24/7 had loads of friends went for sleepovers and to parties nearly every weekend . She was also very open with me spent all her time at home telling me all about x y or z !
Fast forward a few months she barely ever leaves her room when she does its either for an argument or a request to buy something or another from the net. She has given up all her hobbies and prefers to spend 24/7 on facebook/instagram etc.
She goes no where now . She won't come for a day out with me she cancels going out with friends saying "CBA" . She has attempted a couple of sleepovers but has requested being collected by 10 saying shes ill.She has friends here its always the same two who get ready in the morning and leave to do something DD cba to do!
At school she is very disruptive and non compliant and is very aggressive in the way she speaks to staff.She feels they are trying to get at her all the time as am I so any request is met by her temper same at home. She doesn't chat to me anymore and gives one word answers before being irritated and getting back to her room.
I am the worst mum ever at the moment as I won't allow her boyfriend to sleepover but "everyone else is allowed" he is allowed over lots but I will not allow a sleepover.
I just want her to be happy again and do something occasionally I can't force her out ! Last night she sulked all night as all her friends were at a party and wouldn't come to our house but she cba to go to party herself!She sees CAMHS but as many of you know the process is terribly slow.
I'm not sure what to do in mean time apart from worry!
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lucydaniels4658 · 25/01/2015 10:23
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