I am new to this site so this question has probably been posted many times before. My 17 year old son did well in his GCSE's, so well in fact that he managed to to get into a sixth form with a very good reputation and high success rate. Initially he was unhappy there and said he would like to move but persevered.
He has made good friends and his social life has picked up and he has also got his first girlfriend who he is smitten with. We are very free and easy parents ( I think) and welcome all his friends/girlfriend into our home. I am just glad he is happy.
So what's the issue? He wants to go to Uni in the summer but his grades have dropped since he has been there. His teachers say he is a bright articulate boy who contributes to class discussions readily, makes valid contributions and is well liked. I want him to succeed but I never see him revise or pick up a book. Every weekend he is out, during the week he often goes straight to his friends without letting me know so I have to call him to find out where he is or he brings his friends back here and they watch films or play X box.
He has a Uni interview soon and I have told him to read up on the course, think of questions he would like to ask, tips on what to say etc but it is all met with such a lack of enthusiasm. I even said if he changed his mind about Uni and didn't want to go that was OK too but that if he did he has to prepare now. He'll only get a few minutes to make a good impression and if his grades aren't what required his attitude and passion for the subject might. All he says is that Uni is a better option than no job or dead end job which is true but it is so much more so why is he so indifferent to making himself an attractive prospect with potential. On results day I am so worried that while the others are celebrating he will be disappointed but it just goes in one ear and out the other. His attitude also causes friction tween me and hubby as he thinks as I do but puts it less tactfully.
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fatherfurlong · 07/01/2015 09:09
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