We don't really do New Year. Dd asked if she could go to her 17 year old friends party on NYE. I said I would think about it but Dh and I feel at 14 she is too young.
She gets a lot of pressure from this friend and she is my friend's dd, and she does tend to get pandered to in a way I don't with my dd. This is her choice but dd gets peeved with me.
Last night we went to a friend's son's 18th and I allowed dd one alcoholic drink. Dh and I felt she may have sneaked more. What she doesn't know, is her best mate hurt herself and as I was cleaning her up, she admitted they may have drink 5 drinks.
Bit annoyed with her but it's been hilarious watching her with an obvious sore head but not able to complain.
Anyway the friend keeps hassling her to tell me she is coming, she left her phone unattended and the message slagging me off came up.
She's been offered to go to her best mates where I feel this would be a better option as her mum and dad will be there but how to tell my friend to get her daughter to back off as it ain't happening.
Just needed to rant!!!
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Grrr Dd and NYE
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Groovee · 28/12/2014 22:29
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