As mentioned before we have my DH's niece living with us.
We agreed that she should clean her own room, ones a week and do her own washing. She does not work or go to school and is 17. She is happy to just sit on her bed all day long reading or on the computer and only gets some life in her when we go out somewhere of interest to her.
She does not clean her room unless like this morning I put the vacuum cleaner and cleaning materials in her room.
She's been with us for a month now and only ones did she wash her clothes. She wears the same clothes over and over and over. And I suspect undies as well.
How do I discipline her if she is not doing the few things we expect of her. She is not my child, it seems like the same rules just does not apply. She has no friends here so grounding her won't work. I work from home so I can't turn of the internet to remove that from her. I can't take her computer away from her, its not mine.
I don't know what to do to make her realise that we are not here to lick her butt to do things. Hands in hair!!!!
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Lindi3108 · 10/11/2014 11:54
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