Ok so I'm not a parent but I thought since you guys all were you would be the best place for advice!
Basically I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. We're both 18. I have slept over at his house a few times and we share the same bed...which I'm almost 100% sure my mum knows about.
My parents have quite old fashioned views and when my boyfriend does stay is told to stay in the spare room. I understand this is a matter of respect to them. However I didn't realise this meant all the time and not just when they were in.
My family went on holiday a couple of months ago, leaving me behind as I didn't have the money to go with them..I was the house sitter so to speak. My mum asked if I wanted me boyfriend to stay with me for the week since I would be alone. I obviously agreed and he stayed. Everything was fine until they got back.
I was speaking to my mum about our dog who wouldn't leave my boyfriend alone and even slept with him. To which she replied did he (the dog) not sleep in your bed? (His normal sleeping place). I was a bit confused and didn't think anything of it and said 'well yeah'. Now I realise that she was under the impression me and my boyfriend had slept in different rooms while they were away. Which tbf I can understand as they didn't let us any other time -although as I say I did t realise the sleeping sepearte thing applied even when they are out of country!
On one hand I don't think she's so naive to think to we didn't share a bed at some point but on the other I think she felt she trusted me enough to bide by the normal rules because she didn't do that with my dad when they were young and still living with ther parents.
I feel really bad. I feel like i lied to her (unintentionally). I may be overthinking it, I'm not sure.
Do I bring it up again and explain the truth?
Or do I leave it?
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Should I bring it up again?
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Charlie1010 · 07/07/2014 00:29
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