Ds 15 is flatly refusing to come on a family holiday which has been planned, paid for and involves travelling abroad and going to a family wedding.
He says that if we make him go he will run away. He has done this before and I do believe he's capable of doing it again.
Obviously he can't be allowed sabotage our holiday like this. There's no option to leave him behind. I have listened to him and suggested things that might make it more pleasant for him but he's just refusing.
His girlfriend just attempted suicide which was very traumatic for him so I don't want to go in hard as he's in quite a vulnerable place..
I'm at a loss to know what to do.. he will not reason or show any flexibility.
We are not leaving for a couple of weeks but I could do with some advice as I really don't know what to do so this ends well.
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DieselSpillages · 26/06/2014 11:57
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