WWYD? For the last few years we have had cheap caravan holidays in this country for financial and family reasons. This year we are able to manage one week somewhere sunny. We want to take our 15 year old and her 19 year old sister (Big brother is 21 , doesn't want to come and can take care of himself) This is the first foreign holiday we have been able to have for 10 years! My 15 DD is refusing to come with us unless she can bring a friend, the last 2 years we have allowed her to take a friend on our caravan holidays but this year we don't want to for various reasons including cost and the responsibility of taking another child abroad. Do we insist she comes with us and hope she doesn't sulk and spoil the week for everyone else?, which she is more than capable of doing? She wants us to leave her behind but I feel at 15 she's too young to leave while we're out of the country and I would spend the whole time worrying about her! Deep down I know she really would like a holiday abroad too, She says it would be our fault if she missed out and didn't come as we 're not letting her take a friend! Our 19 year old really wants to come but not without her sister as she thinks she will feel awkward. I was so looking forward to getting a weeks break somewhere warm but now I feel like giving in and just not going anywhere. What advice can you offer me? Have any of you left a 15 year old at home whilst going on holiday? should I just forget the holiday this year or insist she comes with us?
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