I have 2 teenage daughters that are suffering with depression and I feel so helpless. No 1 is 14 and has always been shy and quiet but now she is suffering from anxiety and on the verge of panic attacks when she is faced with anything that she is nervous about.
No 2 is 13 and has gone from being a very happy and confident young lady to being withdrawn and distant. She has started self harming and wishing she was dead. We have seen the Gp with both of them and they have been referred to the CAMHS but we have been warned that there is a huge waiting list so it will be some time until they get yhe help they need.
No2 is particularly struggling with school. There is a small group of boys that have been doing the usual silly playground name calling which she has no coping skills to deal with. It has got to the point that her Gp has recommended I keep her home from school. Her school is being amazing and giving her work to do at home but she is insisting that the cure is to move her to another school. This is a crazy idea as I have tried to explain to her. She has friends at her school who try to support her and her older sister trys to support her at school too. If she moved school she wouldn't have that support network. But she insists that she needs a 'fresh start' and that would make her better. When I try to get her to explain why she just shuts me out or bursts into tears.
Im at my wits end, I have no idea where to turn and I have no idea what to do for the best.
I just wish I could fix everything and make my girls better
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jcoates · 21/03/2014 17:19
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