Hi don't often post in teens, wanted to ask advice about self harming, dd1 told school about 18 months ago she had drunk bleach and had been self harming, I handled it badly, in shock maybe, but I asked her to open a bottle of bleach which she couldn't, it looked like I didn't believe her, maybe I didn't,
we went to school and saw a counsellor with her, she said she was still grieving for my mum, I get that, so was I, and things settled down,
yesterday I got a call from school saying she had been back to the counsellor as she had started self harming again and wanted help from them, brilliant she can talk to someone, the school has a really good support network for the kids,
when the counsellor rang me she told me dd had given them permission to let me know she had approached them, that's why they were ringing, they assured me she would be straight in the programme for counselling, and would teach her other coping strategies, when I asked how I would be "updated, informed, given progress" (not the best description) I am told I wouldn't be, it was just to let me know she has gone back into the programme,
This sounds dreadful, please don't think bad of me, but she has lengthy baths atm with music and candles, and when she had bathed last night she put on her pjs, which consists of shorts and a strappy top, (they told me she self harmed on her legs) I saw nothing, nothing at all,
Her blazer was slung on the floor as usual tonight and I have looked in the pockets, wrong I know there are photos of my mum in there and the usual pens, and a triangle ruler,
I am not sure what to do, any advice welcome, she is 14,
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JammyDodger1 · 12/03/2014 17:40
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