Hi,
Just needing advice on a few things regarding my dear 14 yr old daughter.
First problem - can I confiscate her phone/lap top from her room after a certain time or will she hate me forever. Lights out should be 10. I have walked into her room well after 11.00 sometimes later and her phone is under her duvet in her hand OR she has dropped it onto floor hearing my footsteps (but I know she has been on it). Another good one is when being asked to turn off the laptop...I can't it's charging my phone. She lost charger. I will have to get a new one!!
Secondly - not sure if a problem YET but she went on a cinema date last year with a boy..heard no more of it. Have been skyping! each other and face time..now we are leaving the house at night to meet up as long as we are home by 9.00. Actually it was a problem. She said she was meeting 2 friends at the park at the weekend. Asked to be picked up. 1 friend lives 5 mins away. I said why didn't you just walk up with her. Where is she. She left with other friend to go to her home. As we were driving up the road...oh look isn't that the boy you met at the cinema last year. Busted. Actually I asked her later why she lied to me about this and she said she wasn't sure I would have let her go. I said I was more concerned about her lying to me and how did she know I would say no if she hadn't asked. Tbh I think she lied because she seems a bit embarrassed. I asked if it was a romance or just friends. Again embarrassment. So I am not sure if it is boyfriend/girlfriend...maybe. 14 is a bit young?
She also doesn't lift a finger around the house...her room gets tidied after she's been asked about 10 times and then I feel like I am going on a bit. She will set the table occasionally. That is it.
Any tips?
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Advice needed - 14 yr old - boundaries, pulling her weight etc.
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joesy43 · 05/03/2014 14:05
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