Is my ds a lazy arsed & feckless or a normal 15 year old boy?
He never goes out unless forced to. Would spend all day in front of a screen if had the chance. "Forgets" to do things we've asked him to including homework. Doesn't socialise with friends outside of school. Won't go anywhere (like parties, gym, cinema, town) unless he's driven. He will read if screens are not an option but easy stuff like Percy Jackson/Heroes of Olympus stuff. In fact he seems a bit obsessed & has started reading fan fiction about it.
He is academically doing well but it's a struggle to get him to revise, do homework etc, but he does ok in tests.
I really need some perspective on this as I have no real terms of reference as the only other teenager in the family is my cousin's 16 year old dd who seems to go out all the time (& is an academic genius). When I was his age I would take the bus to the nearest shopping centre at the weekends, go to the library, see friends etc.
Should we be making him do more outside of the home? We don't allow internet in bedrooms and they all have to come off screens at 8pm. Basically from the time he gets home from school (always before 4) & at weekends/holidays he's in the house.
Aagh It's driving me mad. Any thoughts? Is this the life of a 15 year old?
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bunjies · 21/02/2014 07:54
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