Sorry but venting again. I got through almost a whole evening without any arguments. First time in this year. Every day is filled with fear walking on eggshells. The worst thing is when DD wants something like a lift she is sweetness and light, funny engaging wonderful to be with. Outside that the days she doesn't need lifts, it's a constant act of aggression. When does the you 'asked me to do something' so I have to do the opposite STOP. So fed up with petty fights over nothing. I live with a 19 year old and yet........when do they become adults that actually respect feelings?