DS, 13 is all over the place mood-wise. He's smart but rushes through his homework which mostly he says he has already done at school, is obsessed with Minecraft and swears heartily via skype when on it. I think he does deals with his lunchcard to get cash for sweets. He shouts a lot and does irritating big-brother stuff yet tells us he loves us everyday. I dunno, we seem to be The Waltons one moment, spiky and shouting the rest of the time.
I knew that hormones would kick in but thought there'd be other things like more free time for me for instance. I now feel totally lost as a parent and go through bouts of shouting.
My big question is, will it all come alright in the end (As the Idle Parent book suggests) or do I need to get draconian or I'll end up with a nice but very bad boy roaming the streets come 15?
I might add that I wasn't exactly an angel growing up but always knew where to draw the line. Perhaps I've answered my own question...
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stopiwannagetoff · 20/11/2013 11:29
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