DS 14 has much improved in recent months and has actually been a joy to have around this summer holiday. He is genuinely kinder, more helpful and more reasonable. He has also become so funny and we laughed so much. I really thought we had cut a corner.
But he has a terrible lying habit. It's not big things he lies about, just about the everyday agreements we have made...agreements that he was involved in making with us, that were discussed at length and then mutually decided.
For example, at the beginning of the holiday HE decided to do some homework on week days because English is is weakest subject. I just found out that he had simply be copying it from the book. Yet he told me an elaborate story how he had only read it and then closed the work book and written everything from memory.
He has been lying to his dad all summer long in this way - dad never spots anything :(( but today I looked at the work and pretty much guessed the fraud.
Our relationship has become so good in so many ways...we laugh and talk reasonably about many things. He tells us how much he loves us...it's been brilliant in so many other respects?
Why is he lying so much?
Our policy has been that he must sit 1 hour in the front porch every time we catch him lying. He does that willingly and is always very sorry.
We also handed over responsibility in pretty much all areas of his life, in order to minimise conflict.
What do you do if you catch your teens lying?
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Palika · 05/09/2013 14:37
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