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ds is 20 so perhaps I should not talk about him here

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barbarianoftheuniverse · 27/08/2013 09:28

But he is a young, immature, unhappy 20 and I am so worried about him. I don't know how to help him. So much has backfired to hurt both me and him. Can I talk here? Are there people out there with dcs that age that still worry about them? I have been on mumsnet for a long time, but there doesn't seem much for nearly grown up dcs.

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secretscwirrels · 27/08/2013 09:44

I don't have a 20 year old but there are plenty that do.
However old they are you still worry about them, so my mother tells me. My friend is beside herself over her 36 year old DS's problems.
Lots of people come on here about DCs who are 11/12 so I am sure 20 can count as a teen!

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lljkk · 27/08/2013 09:52

You wouldn't the first OP, or the last.
Relationships topic could work,too.

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igotaway · 27/08/2013 13:07

Hi, I have a 23 year old and I have received lots of support here for him and myself. The ladies are great here.

Please post your problem and someone may be able to help you both.

never mind the terrible 2's - it's the troublesome 20's

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mumblechum1 · 28/08/2013 14:24

Of course you can talk here. I started posting about my ds here when he was 12 (he's 19 next week) and I suspect I'll still be here when he's 30 .

What's the problem?

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hellhasnofurylikeahungrywoman · 28/08/2013 14:31

I have two adult children (21 and 23) and I worry about them as much now as I have ever done, in some ways it is harder because I can no longer protect them nor take away their pain or worries.

Post away OP.

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mrsjay · 29/08/2013 13:12

I have a 20 year old just because they are grown up doesn't mean you don't worry about them post here people will reply or in chat they don't mind a child related chat

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eatyourveg · 29/08/2013 19:38

My eldest turns 20 in a few months and I can tell you I certainly do worry about him - more than I do his younger siblings.

Is there something specifically that is worrying you OP which prompted you to post?

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MedusaIsHavingaBadHairday · 29/08/2013 22:45

I have posted lots of times about my now 20 yr old DS1... they don't magically mature on their 20th birthday sadly!

Post away!! (by the way my now 21 and 20 yr old call themselves 'twenteens' which I think sums them up nicely!)

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barbarianoftheuniverse · 30/08/2013 15:35

thank you all. may have to namechange because I think dcs look here but will be back soon.

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Isabel1066 · 01/09/2013 22:54

Yes, do come back. I've had stacks of supportive advice and suggestions here for DCs of a similar age. So much of it has really helped me - and DCs. Take care.