I'm new, so I apologise if I'm posting this in the wrong place.
My ds has just left uni with no qualifications and is coming to stay with me after leaving halls of residence. Before uni he was living with his mum (since he was 14, mostly due to my MH issues), so this is the first time in a long while that we will live together. I think I have a good relationship with him - I missed out on any teenage angst but feel I have a great deal of 'making up' to do.
Now he has dropped out of his course, which didn't really suit him anyway, and appears to intend to live with me until he finds a job. I'm not sure he has any idea how difficult this might be, or how long it might take, and I live out in the sticks, away from bright lights and job opportunities. He hasn't any clear goals and I'm worried that he will just drift into a miserable life of minimum wage jobs or the dole, like many people I know, if he doesn't get motivated quickly. He just seems a bit lost.
I think I'm hoping for some reassurance or advice on how to help motivate him, or what should I do for the best.
I'm sorry for the long post, but I really don't have anyone I can turn to for help.
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llwyn · 21/08/2013 22:05
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