Firstly, I know he is an adult and can do what he wants with his life, but he just seems to have gone off the rails the past couple of months. Firstly he went overdrawn on his bank account (he has a job paid at minimum wage and works about 30 hrs a week) and couldn't pay his keep or his phone. I have loaned him the money to sort this out and we are both keeping on top of his spending etc. But he has also gotten really bad at returning my texts/calls, I have caught him lying about seeing his girlfriend when he is actually seeing mates! He has started smoking and I know he has smoked weed (he actually admitted it when I asked him), and last night he didn't come home, when I eventually got hold of him he said he had fallen asleep at a mates and didn't make it into work. I don't know how to handle this at all, what to say to him, if anything!! I couldn't fault him as a younger teenager, he worked hard at school, college and did a wee part time job, never caused any real problems. Am I paniking over nothing???!!!!
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19 year old seems to have gone off the rails.
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shazmack1 · 07/08/2013 13:24
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