Hi, this is my first time here, I have just registered after searching for advice on teenage depression as I am very concerned and worried about my 13 year old daughter, I have booked an appointment for her to see our GP. However I would like some advice, hopefully reassurance that my daughter will be ok.
She is very low, feels ugly and fat, she is highly sensitive to remarks about her appearance, she finds eye contact difficult... amonst lots of other issues.
She was having one of her bad moments last night and I tried to calm her down, she dug her nails into her forehead and scratched herself in front of me and then she went into the kitchen and took a knife out of the draw. She did not harm herself, although there were red marks on her head, which have faded now, luckily her nails are short.
There were tears and she begged me not to take her to the hospital, she promised she wouldn't do it again. But she agreed to see the GP, and she is seems relieved that there could be help for her.
She has some nice friends, but she rarely meets them outside school, just social networking.
She is an only child, I am a single parent, I have brought her up myself since me and her father split when she was 18 months old. I have always worked and had to use childcare when she was little, I feel that I didn't give her enough attention when she needed it, and that she is suffering the consequences of our lifestyle when she was growing up. She hated going to out of school club, but I had no option. I did not think this would happen.
She sees her father every weekend and they have a good relationship.
Worried sick, has anyone got advice? Will everything be ok?
Thanks
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Alexandra78 · 08/07/2013 12:12
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