I found out two weeks ago that my daughter has been cutting herself. I had a phone call from the school as one of her friends was concerned about her and had gone to see one of her teachers.
When she came home I tried to talk to her but she just shut down on me. She refused to talk and refused to show me her arms and legs. I handled the situation very badly and forced her to show me.
It has taken a week for her to speak to me again but she refuses to talk about the situation. She is now seeing a councillor at school but she will not talk to me about it. I have no idea what state her arms and legs are in, as she refuses to show me and I have no idea why she does this. She just says (through gritted teeth) that it is something that she has got to sort out on her own.
I am totally out of my depth and I have no idea what to do for the best. Am I doing the right thing by not forcing her to see her arms and legs? Do I leave it a few more weeks then try again?
It's breaking my heart seeing her do this and not being able to even talk to her or even see how bad the problem is.
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My 15 year old daughter is self harming
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flossy200 · 21/06/2013 11:24
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