Hi. My 13 yr old had 2 best friends until 6 months ago when they stopped including him in things and now barely speak to him. Unfortunately they are still in the same group who walk to school, play football etc. he has a few other friends (also in this group) but doesn't really see them much put of school.
Anyway he's in the school football team and usually gets a game every time they play. One of the ex friends quit the team after 1 game as he didn't get played but came back two games ago and has got to play in the quarter and semi final of a cup match and my son has had to be the substitute. He came in tonight after they had been away to the semi final and was so upset that he didn't get a game and had to watch from the side the whole match. Also the team are going to the park to 'celebrate' tomorrow and he says he won't go.
I know it sounds a bit petty but I'm so sad that everything is going wrong for him and that it's a further knock to his confidence. I also feel like emailing the teacher who is the coach and saying that it seems unfair that he has been committed to the team all year but didn't get to play in the semi final (dreading the final!) at all. I've been trying to encourage him to ask friends round but he won't do it and I'm worried this will now make him feel more excluded.
What should I do? We always end up arguing when we talk about these kind of things as he won't give much away and feels that I go on too much about his friends and giving him advice but I can never help myself.
Thanks
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PJM18 · 24/05/2013 00:10
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