DS is 16, has mild Asperger's Syndrome, and suffers from social anxiety. He attends a small school for teenagers with similar issues.
His class breaks up in mid-June after their exams are finished. DS has been getting increasingly depressed and/or agitated about his class breaking up and it was what I had suspected. He likes a girl in his class. He is painfully shy and doesn't talk much, and she always sits next to him and encourages him to talk. Whether this is interest, friendship, or out of kindness I don't know.
DS is bright and has been offered an excellent further education opportunity, but all he can see is that he won't see this girl anymore, even though he's so shy he won't even ask her what she'll be doing after summer. He was so happy with his plans for September, and now he's really down.
I feel sorry for him. Even if she did like him back, I don't see him being able to summon up the courage to ask her out - and to be honest I'm not sure if a gf would even be a good thing for him at this point in his life. I can already see how this will play out, he will shut himself away all summer.
This is the first time I have encountered a girl issue with ds. Brand new territory for both of us.
All I can think to suggest it that he offers to swap phone numbers and emails with everyone in his class so they can keep in contact, and stay in communication with her that way?
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SingingSilver · 23/05/2013 20:11
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