ds2 is 14 . have had many issues / problems with him over the last few years and our relationship is at an all time low . I dont trust him to tell me the truth etc etc
without going on too much with the background , the issue is that he has made videos of himself on his blackberry yesterday , they are him talking to a girl , in my opinion inappropriately. He is saying what he wants to do to her sexually and is quite graphic . At one point he shows her his willy .
i dont know if he has actually sent it .
he has been talking to this girl on bbm for a few weeks , she isnt from his school and he wont tell me anything much , said she is a friend of a friend . He kept trying to meet up with her over easter and she kept letting him down so i dont even know if he has ever met her . He only really goes out to the local park on the bmx track with friends so unless he has lied to me i dont think he can have met her .
because i had found porn on his last phone quite a few times (until i figured how to stop internet access ) i told him that he could have bbm on his new blackberry but i would be checking his phone randomly and i hoped i could trust him to be sensible.
i have never checked my eldest sons phone because i am confident he is sensible enough but i have to be one step ahead with ds2 .
any advice please ?
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thriftychic · 14/04/2013 22:41
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