Please help. My beautiful, intelligent, articulate, talented DD has just gone into town dressed like ... well.... let me paint you a picture. Her hair (naturally brown) is dyed and redyed (badly) blue-black and there are bits of purple dye all around her neck and forehead which she 'can't get off'. She is wearing a man's tee shirt (she's nearly 14, btw), a man's hoodie and a camouflage jacket, very small, short, tight denim shorts, patterned black tights, green kaki knee length socks and Converse. I hate the word 'skanky' but it really is the best way to describe this look. This has been gradually creeping up, bit by bit, over the last few months and I think it's only today I've realised quite how awful she looks. DH agrees with me that she looks dreadful. My dilemma is this: she is basically a good girl, doing well at school, usually considerate at home, etc. I don't want to sweat the small stuff and I have tried gentle, tactful comments about improving her appearance but to no avail. I should add that she is the most stubborn, determined, opinionated child I have ever met! I don't want to create a huge row but I'm really concerned about the messages she's giving out about herself and her family. She also has a boyfriend who seems very nice - how can he find her attractive dressed like this? What messages is she giving to him? Should I turn a blind eye or put my foot down?
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rubyrubyruby ·
30/03/2013 20:13
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