I've namechanged for this.
DD2 is 13 in April so I figured this was the right place. Tonight she took the laptop up to her room to do her homework. She was there for two hours and when she came down she said 'I've not done much as it took me three attempts'. It was a simple book review. DD is very bright and a book review should not cause any problems at all. So, once she'd gone to bed I was curious to see what her internet history was. It was 1 hour and 45 minutes of porn. Pretty hard core. A lot of girl on girl stuff. A lot of lesbian searches. Her older sister is 15 and has never done anything like this so I'm a bit lost.
What do I do? Do I discuss this with her? Do I read anything into the lesbian element?
Needless to say, I'm not bothered so much by the fact that (if it does mean anything) she is searching lesbian rather than straight porn, but if it does mean anything her dad and his family would be 100% horrified. I'm more worried that if she feels that way she might not feel able to tell me as she might feel that I would share his revulsion.
Also needless to say, I will be installing parental controls forthwith. This is a new laptop and I totally forgot. They were installed on my old one but I got it so long ago I did not even think about it.
Any help gratefully received.
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slightlyperturbed · 26/02/2013 21:38
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