My son is reasonably well behaved most of the time. He is lazy, and needs to be asked loads of times to do chores. His school report is decidedly average for a very intelligent child which is disappointing. I have tried to be patient with him and suggested if he does not want to study and school is not for him, he should leave as I am not prepared to have to constantly be on his back re homework and studying. He says he does want to go to university, but doesn't seem to put the work in. My main problem however is that whenever he doesn't want to do something, he just stubbornly refuses to do it. I wanted to help him prepare for an exam tonight and he refused to read it out to me, saying he couldn't be bothered. I eventually lost my temper, and am not proud about that, but just don't know how to deal with a boy who just will not do what he doesn't want to do. I have taken away his gadgets, and told him he has to earn them back. Any suggestions or advice gratefully accepted. Very frustrating
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