my 12 yo dd has an iPhone (my old one!), and a phone contract, and has been joined this christmas by her 14 year old brother (who has a phone contract) and her 10 year old sister who has an iPod touch. The phone contracts mean that turning off the internet wouldn't work, and they have unlimited data usage on these too. I have parental controls on each device so know they aren't doing anything dodgy.
Currently - since Christmas anyway - they have all been taking their phones upstairs with them to bed in the evenings and spending unlimited time on them. I have said that I am going to set some rules as to the amount of time that can be spent etc, but wondered what other people have.
Do you ban phones in bedrooms? Do you make them deposit their phones outside their bedrooms at a specified time?
do you limit time spent every evening? I know that my children will not self regulate this (previous experience with ds and his x-box, now banned), so need to set some firm, but fair rules.
and also I can envisage a major argument with my 12 yo about this and any tips on how you dealt with this would be really helpful.
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What are your rules on use of phones/ipods? I have 10-14 year olds and need to set some ground rules
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ScaredySquirrel · 03/01/2013 10:22
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