So we have had massive issues with dd as some of my other posts will reflect but decided enough was enough and a change had to be made.
We have had lots of issues with dd over the last few months and things have got a little out of hand so we decided we would let dd out to do her own thing as such, seeing as its the holidays its been 9-5 or 10-6..6 at the latest as its dark. She has been doing this and ive found it quite hard trusting her not knowing who shes with as she ignores my texts but have bitten my tongue and let it go.
This morning she was at my ex's he has her 2 days per week. no idea what time she went out but i text her this morning asking her what she was doing, no reply.She was told to be back at 5pm and to have a nice day.
4.50pm comes and i get a text saying shes staying at a friends for tea. lets just say this fried is the worst one she has and is not good news. I told her i wanted her back as was waiting to go out but all i got back was 'i cant im staying here'she also lives a way away which means her walking home down lanes in the dark.
So i called my friend whos best friend is a councillor for some advice. She suggested leaving her to it and even offering to go and collect her (ive been up since 5am working this morning so the idea wasn't great to me but hey ill try it. However she did say just clarify it with the mum first. i called the mum who knew nothing about it and said she had got into a houseful of teenagers and wasnt impressed. I said i would be up as soon as ide finished work and went and got dd.
So what would you have done. Left her there or done what i did? I have told her she can go out tomorrow but has to be back earlier. My partner was very cross saying he thinks she should be grounded for the day but know that will only start fireworks again.
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gabyjane · 02/01/2013 18:35
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