before half term my DS was suspended from school for assaulting a friend, the incident from what i can gather happened like this, the other child was winding my DS up, in reaction my DS then got the other child into a head lock and managed to cut the boys hand with a scapel that he had in his hand. The other child ended up with a small cut on his hand. The school dealt with the whole issue by suspending DS for four days and as far as they are concerned the matter is now closed, they are putting this down to DS seeing red mist and have stated several times that this is behaviour is completely out of character for my son.
My real issue is that as far as DS is concerned he has done nothing wrong and the other child was in the wrong for winding him up. He didnt orginally tell me about the incident and I only found out when the school phoned and told me and then lied about what actually happened. Im really struggling with how to deal with the whole incident, I don't know what to say to him or how to punish him, its making home life very tense and stressful. I dont think he realises the severity of what has happened and the school have said that if he gets into trouble again he will be expelled and that the incident will go down on his school record which colleges will see when he applies in year 11 (hes currently in year 10.)
I hoping someone can give me some words of wisdom!!
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opher · 05/11/2012 13:24
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