For the last 6 months DS age 13, coming up 14 has become a hermit and never wants to leave his room. He doesn't want to go over to see friends, meet up with them or invite them over, apart from a friend who happens to be a girl, and that's only occasionally. He went on a school trip and he seemed to have a group of friends who called him over when I dropped him off.
I have spoken to his year's mentor at school to ask if he is being bullied, she doesn't think so. Obviously I have spoken to DS. He said that he is embarrassed about his bedroom. I told him that we would revamp it after Xmas providing homework was getting done etc, but he then said he would rather have an £850 laptop. He also mentioned that he is in touch with his mates online, although I pointed out that it's not the same. What can I do to make him more sociable? It's not like I can ground him, and this was never a problem until about 6 months ago.
Personally, I think he is gay, and he has spoken to me a lot about homosexuality and bisexuality. I'm wondering if that's why he has distanced himself from other lads his age.
Aside from the possibly gayness, does anyone else have experience of hermit teenage DS's and advice about this? Is it just a normal teenage boy phase? Should I be worried? What can I do?
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FunBagFreddie · 18/10/2012 20:39
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