My 18 year old sports mad very bright daughter left for uni 5 weeks ago, she has always been a bit self centred which I know drives my partner mad but I defend her to everyone - my partner, her dad, teachers everyone. Over the summer I noticed she was mixing with new friends but because she has her car I haven't met many of them. We have always been really close and family members will comment on how she only needs her mom, this secretly has always made me smile I loved our closeness. She went to uni and hit freshers hard drinking a lot from what I could glean from Facebook and twitter comments. I have been in hospital for a week, a planned day op that had some complications that kept me in, my daughter sent me texts all week and coincidently was coming down that weekend for a football match. I came home from hospital on sat and she had been out with her friends the night before. She didn't bother getting up until 6pm that day and then only to put her head round my bedroom door and say hi. I then didn't see her until she came to say goodbye before she went to play football and then was going straight back To uni. I feel so hurt and my partner is less than supportive seeing me upset that she didn't come and spend anytime with me just gave him the opportunity to moan about her. I think she may take ecstasy when she goes out and this fits in with her sleepin all the next day. Anyway I sent her a rambling email last night telling her how upset I was and my fears re drug taking. She hasn't responded ! Just blocked me on Facebook and twitter. I am devastated. Have I pushed her away ? This is my first ever post, I have never been on this site before but desperately need some help. My background is divorced with 18 yr old daughter and 14 yr old son, they see their dad although my daughter not close to him. Lived with my partner for 11 yrs he has three kids 21, 17, 14 who we see weekly. Had many ups and downs. Sorry to ramble just don't know what to do and no support here.
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